feat: let users change their auto-generated username in Settings

Usernames are auto-assigned at signup (shipped earlier this session)
but there was still no way to change one. Adds a Username field to
Settings, validated client- and server-side against the same
3-20-char lowercase/digits/underscore pattern used for generation,
with a 409 on collision (excluding the user's own current username).

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

apps/web/package.json

@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 {
   "name": "@epicure/web",
-  "version": "0.13.1",
+  "version": "0.14.0",
   "private": true,
   "scripts": {
     "dev": "next dev",